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Love is also a four letter word. Among young people romantic love is in question. Do you, can you, should you want it with your sex? And what’s God to do with it? Here you can read Huffington Post blogger Roger Friedland’s ideas on the problem, get recent data on the contours of university students' love lives, share your own views and experiences, and hear what some of the most perceptive student observers of the college love world have to say. Join us in Making Love.
18 female @ UCSB
ReplyDeleteI lost my virginity when I was 16. At the time I wasn't sure if I should engage in sexual intercourse because I was scared I would be bad at it and I also did not want to be another teen statistic carrying a baby. However, the thing that most frightened me was thinking about my parent’s reaction if they were to ever find out. That was the main thing that was holding be back, or else I probably would have had sex earlier. Looking back I feel that I was a little young, but at least I was smart about it and used proper protection. When I was 16 losing my virginity seemed like a huge deal, but now it just seems like another event that has been added to my life.
20 female UCSB
ReplyDeleteAt the time, I had been eager to break my virginity pledge because I loved the guy. I was very excited thinking up to that moment - but when it happened I was more nervous than anything, also a little bit scared. Now I look back at it as an awkward but meaningful event.
20 female UCSB
ReplyDeleteBreaking my virginity had always been a big deal to me. I was that one girl that always said, not till I'm married. But me and my boyfriend (who I am still with) were going on three years. I love him so much. I still don't regret the action to this day. But I am at the point now where I can see me and my boyfriend getting married in the future, and I could not see myself having sex with any other guy.
18 female UCSB
ReplyDeleteI was in love and having sex seemed to have a special meaning for us as a couple. i do not regret anything in my life but i would only like to offer advice to other young ladies: your first "love' isn't really love usually. its also important to be aware that guys typically see a virgin as a prize
21 female UCSB
ReplyDeleteI was 20 when I lost my virginty and if I could I would go back and do it all over again. It was a very memorable and fun experience. I knew the guy for 2 years and we had become really close friends and began to really like each other. At the time I was more excited then nervous , and I wasn't really sure what I was thinking, just that I really liked and trusted him. We used protection and from that experience our friendship has become even stronger.